Hmmm…not sure what to make of the latest little goody to be laid in our mailbox.
Elaine was a bit perplexed, too.
It was a copy of the latest GameInformer which was delivered by mistake to us.
Which kicked off one heck of an interesting conversation, since the intended recipient is a single dad who plays video games with his kids.
Great dad, too: A couple of tours in the Sandbox (poppy fields areas) and working IT for a local outfit.
Still, it was cause to reflect for a moment (or 10) on how parenting has changed.
“You know, dear, I can’t imagine my dad getting a book about video games. People back in that generation were busy…you know…doing REAL work. And when they did something with the kids, it was always something more…er…practical, I guess would be the word.”
I thought back on it: My dad wasn’t much of a “toss the ball around” guy. But I could name (and effectively use every tool in the shop before age 12. I’d started shagging tools on weekend projects about age 7, or so. By 12, I was looking at “easy A’s” to come in junior and senior high metal shop, wood shop, and gas engines shop. I’d done it all before. Couple of times, in fact.
They were easy (like everything else in school) and consequently, I managed to go through high school without having to read two books. One was a history book – which I found fascinating and still read whenever I have time – while the other was the German book because after four years and reasonable grades in it (B’s) the language is still difficult.
Fortunately, none of my neighbors are German, so it’s a non-issue.
But the question remains: What is parenting?
When I had time with my kids, I was showing them how to do this, how to do that. And everything was put in a “When this happens to you…as it will…how will you fix it?”
To my way of thinking that is parenting. Playing video games with kids?
I mean sure, especially in first person shooter games there are hints and tricks, but is that a durable good?
I’ve been very critical of common core type curriculum development because it doesn’t do a good job of preparing “whole persons” to come out the other side of it.
The “con a ship, cook a meal, perform surgery, build anything needed, forge a shoe for a horse…” kind of education.
And perhaps that is a sign of aging.
I’m sure my parents had no idea was single-sideband was being built in my basement bedroom when I was a kid. And maybe today’s kids down being script-kiddies and writing PERL or PHP are the modern analog.
The the matter of the frontier still holds importance to me. Especially because if the West keeps pressuring Russia hard enough, they will respond with EMP over the US, but legally out in space,; and we could be back into an agrarian society in a flash.
So that’s the matter of great concern. Not that I can do anything about it…and I’ve done what I could to teach my kids about the basics and they’re into their 30’s now.
But it haunts me: Are we bringing up a generation of kids (as in baby goats) that will not be able to fend for themselves if the lights ever go out?
I’m not certain about this, but I wonder if back in America’s pioneering days whether knowing how to unlock the cheats in Zelda would have helped build the foundation we’ve been coasting on ever since?
Woo-Woo: Second Sight or Projection?
Seems like the best dreams I have about future events come when I’ve wakened at my usual time, but then his the snooze button and go back to sleep for another hour. Like this morning – which is why the column is less wordy than usual.
But I know it won’t matter because for so many people, this is a three day weekend.
Unless you’re in Louisiana…
A 3 day weekend ? You must not be living in the right place! It’s Mardi Gras in Lafayette, LA. Most people have a 4 or 5 day weekend.
I apologize…I missed that little detail. With good weather, it’s tempting to pop down for a quick overnighter this weekend…
Back to point…
This morning after I went back to sleep, I “pre-experienced” a meeting that may take place on our cruise ship ride that begins a week from Saturday.
In this dream, Elaine is off doing a spa treatment, and I get talking to people who have come up with a new way of financing vehicle this and that’s, and what did I think about it?
Not much apparently, as I excused myself from the meeting and went wandering off around the ship, but this is the second cruise-related dream I’ve had.
In the first one (before the cruise was even proposed) I knew that there would be some kind of issue about being on a cruise and at our first stop, some people who got off to do shopping and shore excursions wouldn’t make it back on.
Another aspect of that dream? I remember being on the second floor of a shop at one of the shopping ports…it was like a kind of balcony around the edges of one of the shops…but not on all sides… I want to say a couple of east-west balconies off the north and south walls.
There was also a prominent channel with islands on either side of it…which I didn’t bother thinking about too much, until after our friends announced the cruise plans and we decided to go along.
In that one, it was obvious: When you get a dream of islands on either side of a channel going south on the cruise it should have hit me: This was the Houston Ship Channel!
But it didn’t because what was “islands” in the dream aren’t visible until you look at a nautical representation of what’s underway on either side of the ditch.
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